Have you noticed the "recent" trend of people wearing their pants low? Men or women it doesn't seem to matter. You can see the crack of their butts from behind, and their pubes in the front. "Wait a second! That person shaves, but I think I can see some stuble..." So, if people are displaying how many hairs are sticking up out of the crack of their ass, is it okay to comment? "Hey lady, you know you got a grey hair back there?" "Bra, I don't need to see the Chi-a-pet." Some people still have their underwear showing. If someone asks you if you are sunburnt out of concern, don't get mad because they didn't realize it was just your orange panties showing through. I'll make you a deal: Dress however you like and we will say whatever comes to mind.